Love me or leave me alone - 31

Reply to: {redacted}
Date: 2007-11-08, 8:34AM EST

I love to go out and see movies, hang out with my friends, or just watch tv. I have a Degree in Elementary Education. Starting my life over again. I just moved here. I like to hang out at the house. I'm pretty easing going. I'm willing to try most things once as long as I don't get too hurt. I like to spend time with someone and go places or just chill out. I just miss having someone around. If you are interested let me know.



Location: D.C.
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Waking up alone - 46 (dublin / pleasanton / livermore)

Reply to: {redacted}
Date: 2007-11-04, 7:36AM PST

Well here it its Sunday morning and I'm waking up alone, agian. I thought I had a girlfriend but I was alone last night aswell. I'm looking for someone to share my life with. I am a honest and hard working guy just tring to find the love of my life. When I find her she will be treaded the way a woman should be treated. If this sounds good to you I'm in Tracy and waiting to hear from you.

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Missed Connection: Your gear spokes with its bicycle chain

Reply to: {redacted}
Date: 2007-10-30, 2:30AM PDT


My friend and I were driving behind you for a while on Market. She tried to overtake you and got pretty close to you. I told her that bicycles have the full use of the lane. Sorry about the first attempt.

She said you had nice legs; I agreed but thought your ass was a better feature. She lamented that you were too tall for her. To that I responded, "No way! He's...what? Five-seven?" She had guessed 5'9". Of course you have to understand that she's on the shorter side (but with a big heart!).

I rolled down the window and yelled at you, "How tall are you?" There was a noticeable delay in your answer...6'2"! My friend apparently has much better spatial perception than I do.

And then you had a problem with your chain. Hope you got home alright.



Location: Market St.
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learn how to sail, and get pleasured - m4w

Reply to: {redacted}
Date: 2007-10-30, 1:50PM PDT


handsome sailing instructor will teach you how to sail, your boat, and please you in other ways..

have a fulfilling day



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Can you vote??? - 22

Reply to: {redacted}
Date: 2007-10-30, 2:10AM PDT


I am looking for something not sure yet. I want to meet a nice person. I am looking for a guy to get a background check and show me so I can trust him. You can go to the civic center to the sheriffs office and get a letter to show me your not a felon or have a any court dates and it only cost $2 are you interested??? If you don't get it I won't be interested in you because you must have something to hide. Oh yeah take a drug test too not sure how much that cost. You must not be a felon or be on drugs. I hope to meet someone nice so I will be waiting to here from you. I am only asking this because I have had a few bad experiences that could have been prevented if I had these things. What better way to start something than with some level of trust.

I understand if your saying no because your really broke and don't have $2 or your just hiding something otherwise what's the problem.



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Any separated woman seeking new companionship? - m4w - 43

Reply to: {redacted}
Date: 2007-10-30, 1:03AM PDT

I can’t help but wonder if my ideal counterpart is out there somewhere. There has got to be at least one separated but still officially married woman somewhere, who is free to seek new companionship and maybe is even living separately already. That’s right, my “perfect” partner would now be in life circumstances that are about as “imperfect” as my own.

So if you fit that profile, then it would be nice if we could talk about it some more. I’m someone who honestly will be entirely non-judgmental, as I completely understand that there are many different reasons why you might be separated but not divorced.

Maybe you and your husband have young kids that move back and forth between the two of you. Maybe you are still each other’s closest local family, best friends and confidants, just without the romance, attraction and heat you once felt for each other. Maybe one of you needs the other’s health insurance benefits or any other spousal sponsorship of some sort. Maybe you still depend on each other emotionally, intellectually, professionally or financially. Maybe you can’t get used to the thought of making your break official and legally binding from someone whom you feel loyal to and have gotten used to having in your life for so many years. Maybe you are just scared of being alone, single and irreversibly on your own again. Maybe you were raised in a culture with traditional values where divorce was not a morally acceptable option. Maybe a formalized divorce would hurt or shock one or more in your family so tremendously that you just can’t do it to them.

Whatever YOUR personal reasons for not divorcing are, trust me, I’m perfectly accepting of them and I won’t try to change your mind or heart about them in any way. I sincerely never want to come between you and your family matters. All I might want is to perhaps become your new companion, friend, lover, so we can add a new romance, love, partnership to both of our lives in ways they can independently co-exist with those other ties in our present lives. If you’re already living in your own separate residence despite those existing attachments, congratulations! Then you’ve already made the first step towards building a new separate life that’s independent from the existing one. If not, but wish you did and could, that’s alright too.

I imagine it is possible to be married to one person and love another. I think that one life with a spouse and another with a very special friend/romantic love interest can co-exist simultaneously without undermining each other in the least. There are so many valid rational and irrational reasons for staying married, but that doesn't mean we should deprive ourselves of new love and happiness for the rest of our lives!

Like you probably figured, I’m married too. My wife and I still get along but are now living more like friends or roommates, without any sex, intimacy or romantic feelings whatsoever. In that sense we are emotionally and sexually separated, you might say. If there weren’t compelling economical reasons for sharing a residence, we might have each gotten our own two separate places by now and be geographically separated as well. I do have a silent understanding with her that I can seek the romance and intimacy I’m missing elsewhere, as long as I don’t tell her about it or make it so obvious to her and to the world that she’ll be confronted with it in that way. However just casual short-term affairs are not at all what I am after, as I’m certain they would not satisfy me emotionally. I want a more consistent, multifaceted, holistically-nourishing relationship with one woman. That’s the reason I am posting here.

Anyhow, if you think you and I might be looking for similar solutions to our complicated circumstances, then you are most welcome to email me a couple of introductory sentences about yourself. Once we’ve learned a little bit about each other, I’ll show you my photos in exchange for yours. My looks are, as they say, very easy on the eyes.



Location: San-Francisco
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Anyone Else Board With Their Life? - 22 (sunset / parkside)

Reply to: {redacted}
Date: 2007-10-30, 11:06AM PDT


i'm 22 from san francisco. I work full time at a hospital, no im not a nurse but hopefully will be soon. A little about me, i'm very open, a great listener, i love my family and am very family orientated, i'm always down to have a good time as long as im in great company. :-) umm on my free time i enjoy singing dancing, drinking here n there (not as big of a drink as i used to be) reading, writing, walking on the beach, meeting new people and this list can go on and on. I belive i am a very out going person willing to try new things as long as im in good company and feel safe with whom ever i'm with.
So if you like what you've read and want to hear more, You know what too do!
Dont forget to send your pic.
Hopefully I'll hear from you soon

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A true romantic but sex anytime - m4m - 50 (oakland lake merritt / grand)

Reply to: pers-464682576@craigslist.org
Date: 2007-10-30, 9:31PM PDT


I’m 5’6”, 135 lbs., looking for another relationship, possibly long term. Especially attracted to Asian, especially Indian males but am open to anyone, age wise or race wise..

My situation is this. I was in a relationship with a wonderful man for two years. However, he stated that he was not into a LTR and dumped me 2 years ago. Fine, I knew what I was getting into. We still see each about once a month, even travelled to Mallorca together last summer but the romance is gone. I very much miss the romance in my life and hope to rekindle the burning flame inside of me.

I’m a professional, with my own home, into tennis, art, bridge, traveling (been all around the world). I don’t take life too seriously but am serious about living.

You could be married, in a relationship with a man or woman. Maybe you only want a friend with benefits? Okay. Be funny or at least open to laughing a lot, HIV-, STD free (like me) and willing to give some time of yourself to restaurants, dinner at my house, sex in the morning, afternoon or at night, watching DVDs and cuddling together or that simple walk around Lake Merritt. This could be a one-night pleasure OR the possibility of a long-term relationship.




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Are you a successful man who'd like to marry a lesbian?

Reply to: pers-464492571@craigslist.org
Date: 2007-10-30, 5:21PM PDT


Have a best friend, confidante that's worldly-experienced on your side! If that's something that sounds good to you, let me know.




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