Saturday, December 1, 2007

If you're lonely as I am, maybe you should read - 25 (concord / pleasant hill / martinez)

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Date: 2007-11-25, 2:37PM PST


My name is Paolo, I'm 25 years old, I'm average height, average build, (weight appropriate for height) Adonis looking....I'm an art model. I'm a wishful thinker and a hopeless romantic. I think with my heart and I'm really bad at pretending to be something I'm not. I believe that nothing else matters, especially money, as long as you are with the one you love. I'm defiantly am not a sports person, never really saw much sense in it, it just takes too much time and energy and I want to use it in more productive things.

Now...not to sound conceited or anything, but as from what I'm told by many, is that I look like the type of guy that all those popular girls in high school would be all over (which of course is a good thing), but for some anonymous reason, the attention I'm getting from the opposite gender, is short, shallow, vague, not enthusiastic, and generally not worth my time.

I need someone who'd be interested in being in the bed, holding hands and kissing. to end up playing with each other's tongues, to be with, say like on those really hot days when we're sweating so much that our clothes are literally sticking to our skin, go to one of each other's places, strip down and take a shower together and passionately kiss each other under the running water. Or...during this time of season, it starts raining, and then end up passionately kissing each other in the middle of the raging hard rain and feel the warmth and wetness of her mouth and then awhile later go to one of each other's places and our clothes are all soaking wet, that they are literally sticking to our skin, so we strip down and into the shower and start kissing some more under the running warm water. I want to lay on the grass side by side holding hands under a partly cloudy evening sky, at midnight, and cuddle while gazing at the full moon, and then ending up coming over to one of our places, and put her arms on the back of my neck and take her by the back of her knees and carry her to the bedroom, and sit on the bed with her legs wrapped around my waist, and start to passionately kiss each other, by starting with my fingertips on her face, and then my palms on her cheeks and then gradually working through her hair, as I feel the wetness and the warmth of her mouth as we passionately rub each other's tongues together while we kiss.

I want to move the hair away from your eyes and then kiss you, I want to hold your hand in line at the mall and make all the girls jealous. I will get pissed off at someone if they called you ugly or was mean to you. I want to call you 3 times a day if I went away. I'll let you gossip to me and would just smile and agree with everything you said, I want to throw stuffed animals at you when you acted ridiculous and then kiss you a million times! I want to take you to the park and put my hands around your waist and give you bear hugs and kisses all the frigging time! I want to tell all my friends about you and smile when I did it! I want to make out with you in the pouring rain. I'll be never afraid to say, "I love you", in front of my friends or ANYBODY. If we ended up arguing about ridiculous things we'd then make up. I want to kiss you at midnight on New Year's Eve and count stars with you, I want to stay home with you on Friday evenings, help out with dinner and watch foreign moves together under the same blanket.

Bottom line is, I need a woman who's interested in a long term relationship. Someone who's looking to have a one-on-one relationship, who's sincere, romantic, affectionate and who's open to the possibility of a "real" relationship. A woman that knows how to pick up the phone and call just to say "Hi". A woman who doesn't hide or turn off her cell phone when she's with me. A woman who doesn't have a problem introducing me to her friends and family. Bottom line....A woman who's sincere, honest and faithful. A woman I can love and one who will love in return. and no mystery, no "play-hard-to-get" PLEASE!! I don't mean to sound so needy, pushy or inquisitive or anything, but girls who play hard to get, is a MAJOR turn off for me, playing mind games on guessing whether or not she's interested, is very annoying, and the moment I sense a girl who's doing that, I automatically presume it's a rejection, and withdraw my interest, and look for someone else. You don't show interest, I loose interest, even though you're just "PLAYING". That's why, I truly believe that communication is VERY important!

I'm a little leather welcomed together with a small waist and a baby face. As gold is tried by the fire for its purity so is love Try it and you will no longer be cold or lonely. Seek comfort, warmth, and shelter In my arms Don't be afraid I promise not to bite... smile! Everyone deserves a chance at happiness and love So give me one because that's all I need... I'm in search of a love that would be strong and long lasting as life itself, burning in us like an eternal flame discovering passionate hidden corners in our hearts and minds, waiting to be unlocked and explored. To find a place where there is only one, because I am you and you are me, together as a whole soul, entwined together in total bliss, as I dream upon a night that you will finally belong to me... A night for us to discover each other's fantasies and desires. I want you to look in me and see a constellation of bright beautiful stars. I want to be that place that you could come to and lose yourself in forever. That special place; exciting, captivating, and mystifying. Touching you from the inside out. And with this love we will evolve into something far beyond this world.

Come into my world, allow me to teach your inner soul, quenching all your fascinations. Enter my garden... Let me fulfill your deepest dreams, leaving the mark of a voyage you never dreamed to embark.



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Navy SEALs only- w4m - 32

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Date: 2007-11-19, 1:37PM HST


I have assessed and recognized other branches of the military and not one has elicited my interest. It is well known the attitude and commitment that one has attained from training, it would be most pleasurable to be face to face with such devoted and destructive intent. Is there any out there? I would love to meet you. Please, if you are not a Navy SEAL do not reply.


I am a woman on a mission with high demands and the intent to accomplish, please email photo with uniform on.



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Friday, November 30, 2007

lonely with a bare social life and need new friends - m4mw - 29

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Date: 2007-11-25, 4:22PM PST


DISCLAIMER:
I want to preface this post by stating categories of people I wish to NOT become friends with: (1) those who like to get drunk; (2) those who like to go to bars or dance clubs just to get wasted; (3) Christian fundamentalists; and (4) those with depression or other mental illnesses.

I'm a young, college-educated professional who works full time and lives in Marin. I'm single and the friends I used to have in college have decided to move on and not stay close. To be honest, I eat meals alone every single night and have come to hate being alone. People around my age who I work with are in relationships and always ask me what I'm doing, especially on the weekends. Acting (and feeling) embarrassed, I shrug my shoulders and say that I have no plans which is the honest truth. I hate being alone. I'm a classical musician and rehearse chamber music weekly but with no one remotely around my age; and I just don't know how to make new friends. It's especially harder as I get older and find that everyone around my age (except me) is married or in a relationship --or-- the friends I had in college no longer want me in their life. If you're a girl, I would prefer that you are single so that there is a chance we could become more than friends.

If you're interested, I hope to hear back from you.



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Thursday, November 29, 2007

I'm lonely and want something A LOT tonight - m4w - 29

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Date: 2007-11-26, 6:01PM PST


I'm really feeling both alone and lonely and have felt this actually for quite awhile. I'm overweight yet cute, and my lack of luck, both in finding relationships and sex, have led me to actually have low self esteem. I wish I could find another girl who is really lonely with low self esteem who would be interested in finding a nice guy to grab onto tonight and have some fun. It's no fun being single, alone, and sexually empty. I don't want a serious commitment--just someone who feels the way I do to have sex with. I'm 5'7", 230 lbs., have a shaved head, hazel eyes, a nicely-trimmed goatee, am moderately hairy, and possess excellent personal hygiene. Hopefully you're in Marin.






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mainland guy looking to catch a break... - 29

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Date: 2007-11-19, 7:03AM HST


Aloha! Yes, I currently live in Michigan - but I visited the islands in February, and let me tell you - I fell in LOVE with Hawaii - the lifestyle, the weather, the laid-back atmosphere...
But anyway - like I said, I work and live here in Michigan. Have been here all of my life. I don't know what it's been lately, but I have just felt burnt out on how things are over here. I am a hard-worker, and I expect success and happiness to come with that. I have the drive to really make something of myself, and I want to see that I reach my goals while I'm still somewhat young. I have experienced everything that I think I can in Michigan, and now I'm finally at that point in my life where I feel comfortable with looking to better myself and to see what else is out there in the world.
Let me tell you a little more about myself. Like I said, I'm 29, and I'm somewhat of a work-aholic. Not because I want to over-do things, but just because I want to push myself. I think that comes from my mom's side of the family - she's the same way, but I don't see it as a bad thing. I work currently at a local utility company. I also bartend at a golf course as a part-time job a few nights a week. I graduated from the University of Michigan, with a Bachelor's degree in 2005. Why I don't use it, I'm not sure. I guess I just got comfortable at my job and of course, when you start getting those paychecks, it makes it hard to leave. I'm also on our local fire department - so like I said, I stay busy.
I've also had my fair share of relationships (the wrong ones, anyway). I guess I just haven't found the right person yet. I really think that having someone to compliment you, and someone who you really click with is another part of completing yourself and part of that overall puzzle in life.
So of course I'm trying to find that one person who just knocks me off my feet and to where I have no doubt that she's the one. I'm tired of making the wrong choices, or for settling.
So I guess what I'm saying is that I'm trying to finally take those steps to see myself meeting those goals in my life. I'm not looking for sympathy - maybe just looking to catch a break or a bit of luck. I've been searching for jobs, and housing and what-not out there, but it's not the easiest thing to do from way over here in Michigan. I have my friends out in Makakilo which are trying to help me to an extent, but I guess I'm looking for something sooner and more helpful than what they can provide. I'm ready to see what life has to offer me - and I hope to find that true happiness in a career, and a woman that will make me live my life to the fullest and help me meet those goals that I have set, and who is hopefully looking for the same thing - to expect the most that life has to offer. Hope you have a good day, and mahalo!



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Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Is My King Out There?? - 44 (hercules, pinole, san pablo, el sob)

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Date: 2007-11-26, 1:05PM PST



I'm a God Fearing Queen in search of her King! I'm caring, compassionate, honest, sincere, trustworthy, spontaneous, open-minded, non-judgemental and outgoing. My King must be God Fearing and knows how to treat a True Queen. Must have a good head on his shoulders, plans & goals for the future. I'm not into game playing and have no time for DRAMA in my life... My King must have no problem spoiling his Queen whatsoever... I'm not going to drag this on if there is any " True Kings" out there and feel we have something in common please contact me friendship is where it all begins... Don't judge me before you get to know me... Until then all be safe and blessed...










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Jewish gals are sexy... - 25

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Date: 2007-11-20, 1:11PM EST


This is me. I am not shown actual size. I spend a lot of time on this . I am seeking a long term relationship with a nice, down-to-earth . I would like a date with a sweet , preferably one who's nurturing, caring and will tuck me in and kiss me goodnight, every night . I would prefer if she were not as tuff as a bull and had never been here . If she lets me take her out, she can wear something pretty like this or this . If she does not think of me as the man of her dreams, I will cry and need this . If she falls in love with me, I'll will for joy.



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  • Tuesday, November 27, 2007

    silly. loving. lady - 20

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    Date: 2007-11-26, 3:23PM PST


    I want a man
    I want a man who walks with peace in his steps
    And confidence in his eyes, his heart.
    I want a man with passion
    A conviction to better the world
    Not a desire to change or conquer it.
    I want a man who selflessly creates beauty in all forms.
    He lives knowing today may not be tomorrows yesterday.
    He knows how to simply be in the presence of where he is.
    Music sooths his heart but does not control his mind.
    I want a man who speaks his true intentions
    Through his hands and through his mouth.
    I want a man who has nothing to prove
    And everything to give.
    Not only to those he holds dear to his heart,
    But to strangers passing by.
    A man who respects life in all forms.
    His mind and soul are strong, and his presence is peaceful.

    I prefer someone between the ages of 21-30, has ambition (education/job). I’m a loving, pretty, silly, strong hearted, lady of 20 years. Though the above lines might be a bit serious, I am also a person who wants to enjoy my time with someone who doesn’t mind being a goof. I love to laugh…and dance. If friendship is where this post takes me, then that is wonderful. I’m not looking to hook up physically, everything else is up for question. There is always more…



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    Boys, Just wanna have fun - 28

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    Date: 2007-11-20, 12:32AM CST


    My name is Eddie and I am here to say, I like having fun in a major way. Red, White, Yellow, Orange, Purple, Lime and Blue. To get you on a date, I gotta trick you. I have to take pictures in a certain way, to make it look like I am not ugly in a major way. I even say an income I could never achieve, because I always know, at least one will believe.

    Wait a second, Wait a second. I am not like that at all. I am honest Eddie. 'Coz I am a man who will fight for your honor
    I'll be the hero that you're dreaming of
    Gonna live forever knowing together
    That we did it all for the glory of love.

    Anyways I have posted on here before, met a few nice people, and a few weirdos as well. But I guess you can meet weirdos just about anywhere so I am not afraid. I'm just not gonna life my life being afraid. I decided long ago, never to walk in anyones shadow. If I fail, if I succeed, at least I lived and I believed.

    I would like to meet more cool, fun, interesting people, I think meeting people is fun. I am also pretty good at sorting out the crazy ladies, so crazy ladies beware, I will sort you out.

    One of my main gripes is when someone wants to know my entire life story before they will even want to talk on the phone or meet for coffee. I am sorry, I have just never fallen in Love over email, and I don't plan on it. I also haven't heard of anybody getting killed by their phone or at a restaurant. Maybe I am just a "Doubting Thomas", but my name isn't Thomas, it's Eddie. I am young, I'm
    pretty, I hit hard, I am in the best shape of my life. You don't want to get in the ring with me. Or maybe you do. I do have dimples.

    20 questions
    Married-no
    Kids-good movie~none yet
    Smoker-yes
    Drinker-no
    Dancing-no
    Pool-yes
    Swimming-yes
    Gay-no
    Bi-Bicycle
    Workout-elliptical winter, run summer
    Doritos-Nacho Cheese
    Dairy Queen-M&M Blizzard
    Liquid-Coffee~Black
    Solid-My biceps
    Gas-The diluted smell of a skunk, I kind of like it
    Plasma-whats that
    Music-Chieftains to Outkast to Conway Twitty
    TV-History Channel, 60 minutes
    Radio-Am 1130, Am 1500, KQRS morning show
    Movies-Rounders, Blow, High Fidelity
    Guilty Pleasure-Better Cheddars
    Dogs or Cats-My dog

    Anyways, thats a little about me, if you like it let me know. Send a picture or
    your myspace, facebook address. Once we are reasonably comfortable that we are both not psycho. Maybe we can chat on the phone, or meet for coffee. Here are some pictures I took of myself tonight out in my garage(5 points if you dig suspenders) I think they are dang comfortable.

    Sincerely, Eddie










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    Monday, November 26, 2007

    serogate father - 33

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    Date: 2007-11-22, 9:02PM EST


    its so nice to read something sweet there are some ucky people on here i actualy need some good advice.i have been dating a leagaly sepparated man. yes i know that was/is my first mistake.he lied in the beginning.i was drinking and pill popping at the time so my judgment was poor. anyway he is other than the double life the sweetest man ive ever loved besides my own father.my parents are real religios not of this day and age people.they have been together fof 35+ years. my parents never went to bars.they dont drink or do drugs.my mom has olways known were my father is. no cheating as far as i know.imalmost positive.my mom is veary oppinionated and mean most of the time so while she has a good man my parents have spent most of their lives miserable.they are veary financualy stable and my father would never leave my mom beleive me she pushes people to their limits.i think its important to know a little about how i was raised to understand me.im a single mother of a 12 yr old .i dont have much but we have what we need and i have a good relationship with my girl.my mom and i dont get along .we dont argue.we just deal with eachother i guess.i actualy think alot of my short cummings in life is because of my...with my mom.i would go to a therapist but i really dont have the funds for that as i know i could go for years and years literaly.i am nice to a falt.i make excuses and understand so much that its killing me i think.i married at 19 years old to a man who lied cheeted alot did drugs and still has not changed.he had been to rehab by the age 17.and did not finish high school for it.needless to say that was 6 yrs of alot of sadness.then i fell for another drug addict.he ended up being ua from the military and i did not even know it this is when i started learning about drugs.he had so many personalities.you name it i went thru it with him.that was a1 yr relationship.hes been in and out of jail since then and i actualy moved to afar off part of tidewater to get away from him.oh!by the way they both dumped me.then i lost my mind.my car was breaking down-transmission propblems and i decided to work at a local strip bar.i wanted to know why my x wanted to be there instead of with me.i am a pretty girl. im nice.im giving.i take care of my buisness.i am faithful and want my mam to know that when i have one.my daughter is sweet as she can be .so its not like i have alot of baggage or creat drama.so then i dated a man from that bar.the bartender said he would never cheat.that was a turn on for me as i can deal with alot but i cant seem to deal with cheating. well he ended up being a drug addict too.im like wow i have a real problem .why have i now been with 3 drug addicts?this one was mean half the time too.he messed with everything but crack and needles are the scarry part.he got violent and we parted ways.now for the one im dealing with now he said he was sepparated from his wife.freinds backed his story up men and wemem.apparently she left to go to tx and left her 2 young boys behind.he was left to take care of them alone and with long work hrs and little money.im thinking shes the nut case he said she was because no woman leaves their kids.then 4 and 5.he did not have much help so i watched them and thats how we got started.he has lived with me for 1 and a half years and we got along pretty well except he did some double life stuff for awhile. thier leagal sepparation has been over one year and 3 weeks ago i blew up and kicked him out when i could not get him to want a divorce.hes been with me 5-7 days aweek for as long as weve known eachother.im done with the bar scene ive learned or figured out what i needed.anyways its thanx giving and i spent last night with him.i probobly should not have.i thoght giving him time to think about loosing me would get him to realize some things.hes admitted to having some sort of mental breakdown but my question is this I DROPPED HIM OFF AT A FREINDS HOUSE .THATS WERE HES BEEN STAYING SINCE OUR LITTLE TISS.9AM HIS CAR IS BROKE DOWN BUT HE HAS A PHONE BUT HAS NOT CALLED ME ALL DAY .I REALIZE HES SEEING FAMILY THAT HE DOES NOT SEE TOO MUCH BUT I FEEL IM JUST REPEATING HURT AFTER HURT WITH THIS GUY SHOULDNT HE HAVE CALLED ME BY NOW IF HE SO CALLED LOVED ME?hes so confusingi love the time i spend with him but im seriosly about at the end of my rope with him.i told him we would never live together again unless he filed thse divorce papers.im like how much time does a man need?im not calling him because ive given the whole relationship and ive made my case .im not pushing for marriage just for him to close one chapter .i need to know im not investing in a man who cant move on.im thinking today is loud and clear hu no call since 9am im so disapointed whats new.that alot.



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    Would you like to experience a sexual Enema? (Ladies Please) - m4w

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    Date: 2007-11-09, 11:34PM EST


    Have you ever been curious about the red bag? Would you like to learn more about the sexual pleasure you can get from an enema? I am quite serious in writing this. I am an experienced, tall, attractive and educated enema fan? I am white, late 30s, professional and mannered as well as quite naughty. Safe and sane only. Please tell me about yourself as well. Thanks for looking at my ad.



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    Sunday, November 25, 2007

    When I lived alone, is there a ghost in my house. - 21 (berkeley)

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    Date: 2007-11-11, 4:32PM PST


    I'm looking for many things. I'm 21 and completely alone. Sad song. I think ideally I'd be looking for a hook up. I know this is ridiculous behavior but I'm not sure I can hold out while I find the love of my life, especially since I just got out of a relationship. I'm open to other things though and we'll always ride it out and see where something goes.. I'm 6'0" and 150lbs. Lets talk.



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